everyone has said and done problematic things in their lifetime. that’s a result of the society we live in, not necessarily a reflection of their character.
what is a reflection of their character is how they react to being informed of the negativity within their behavior and statements, and whether or not they choose to change their behavior.
without trying to control them.
She lets them go their own way,
and resides at the center of the circle. — Lao Tzu (via thecalminside)